Monday, January 4th 2010 – if we could have heard everyone wake up at the same time throughout North America, it would have been a true screeching fingernails-running-down-blackboard sound similar to something like:
UGH!!!
No No! … Louder – much much louder!!!! And with more disgust:
UUUUUGH!!

Getting back into the swing of things after the holidays is often difficult. Children everywhere suddenly become ill with tummy and head aches. My nephew said it best. After arguing strong points on why he shouldn’t have to go to school, he left the house declaring:
“Fine! But Tuesday is a DAY… OFF!”
Although we look forward to sending those little children over the threshold, for us adults it’s not any easier! We find ourselves yearning to sleep-in for ‘just one more day’ – and this time make it a ME day! What an enticing plan after bewildering holiday stress with dashing here, sprinting there, family and friends demanding our attention all around us. Who wants to get back into the swing of deadlines?
UUUUUGH!!
But alas… we have a mountain of debt to recover from so off to work we go, dragging our feet along the way, day dreaming of a million and one other things we’d rather be doing instead.
Re-establish your old routineIn order to get past these me-time-blues, it is critical to focus on maintaining the same routine you were accustomed to prior to the holidays. Re-establish the comfort of your daily schedule and forget adding on more stress with New Year’s resolutions… for now!
We fail in keeping our resolutions because we try to integrate new plans into an already stressful period!
Set Realistic GoalsPlan to succeed. Set some realistic goals for yourself starting with not stressing yourself out in January. Focus on re-establishing your routine, morning, afternoon and evening. (If you must call it a resolution… I’ll forgive you! But don’t plan anything else – promise?)
Mental exercise to get you motivatedHOMEWORK:
Mentally prepare yourself for a great year.
1. Reflect on what you did accomplish in 2009 and take ownership of it. Be proud of yourself!
Now move forward knowing that 2010 will be even better!
2. Think back at the goals you did not accomplish in 2009.
Don’t just make a mental note of these and start feeling bad for yourself.
Jot them down and save the file under “2010 Goals”.
But don’t start planning just yet – that’s an entirely new blog to come. We’ll come back to it later.
My #1 goal for 2010 is to write more frequently. I thought about it in 2008, I talked about it in 2009 and I will plan it in 2010!